Victim Mentality

I've been thinking about life lately. Why do some men think that they are the victims of the story when couples break up. They say mean shit about you, despite the girl pay for dates, take care of them, give them the world that they cannot buy for themselves. You've shown your love and yet you are the mean one. They want the traditional housewife, and yet my partner, didn't want to be the provider of the family? He just wants to sit in his ass and be a king? He wants me to be the provider and serve him at the same time. Legit frustrated 🥲