Open to receiving advice po

My bf is currently with his friends rn. Last Monday, we had a fight because his friend told me to shut up, when I told them that my bf won't join their vacation because his mom was against about him going to Bohol. I know I am at fault also because I called his friend names. We had a huge fight that night and he told me and my family that I am "bastos" because I texted his friends. And now, I saw his pics and videos. They are drinking since Tuesday, and I can see in his eyes that he is really happy when he is with them. I just don't know what to do rn. Please spare my grammar.