ALL THE SINGLE LADIES PUT YO HANDS UP

I'm just curious: what was the cause of your breakup? I'll start: he was my first boyfriend, i was his 4th or 5th yata and we were going 4 years. We had a kid nung 3rd year namin—i was 23. Of course we weren't prepared and syempre fault din namin for not doing it safely, so we started being mature about it and owning responsibilities. Around 2019 after months of suspecting him of having an affair (thru gut feeling and dreams), i finally caught him. I saw their disgusting exhange of messages na nasa spam folder nya sa messenger—and of course expected na deleted previous messages. Take note: the girl knew me and alam nyang may baby na kami but still did it lmao. Anyway after seeing the evidence i've been looking for of course i broke up with him. I wasn't able to eat and sleep properly for 3 days—teh sobrang effective for weight loss ha HAHAHAHA JK. Oh well, unfortunately after few weeks nagkabalikan kami kasi naisip ko baka wala ng magkagusto sakin and all—which is bs cos there will always be a better one. Around january 2020 i finally ended the relationship for good. Kahit ano pang paawa nya wala na talaga because i caught him again, but this time buying contents from a girl sa telegram. 6 years later, my life has never been this good after cutting connections and having no communication with him at all. I'm finally from that manipulative gaslighter—thank you Lord. Kaya for anyone who are still in a toxic relationship: i pray na sana makalaya na din kayo. And if you want to be in a relationship again: may you find someone who will love you genuinely 🤍

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