Healing

I feel like I have made significant progress in my healing era. It has been almost 2 months since we cut off each other. I saw him sa work recently and di ko na talaga sya pinapansin if hindi work-related yung sinasabi nya. I know na I have my own share of responsibilities kung bakit di sya nag work out pero he knew that it's my first ever attempt to be in a relationship and I'm going through many things at that time. Di ko rin talaga masyadong nakita yung red flags at that time as I was seeking external validation during that time na sobrang low ko rin talaga because of my depression. Looking back at it now, there are subtle signs na lust lang talaga yung habol nya. With that, anong maaadvise nyo on how to protect yourself (your heart) from guys na unclear naman talaga ang intentions?