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Midnight Thoughts

Is it possible for a man to fall in love again agad even if his wife just died last year? Here's what happened. Married for 6 years with one child. His wife was terminally ill and the last 3 years were the most difficult years of his life because he had to take care of her sick wife and their child (the kid inhereted alpha thalassemia-minor stage. It's a blood disorder). Last year, his wife just passed away (around 3rd quarter of 2025). Now, there's a new girl in his life. A former college classmate. Reconnected after 10 years on their reunion last year. A friendly date turned to romantic date. And he recently confessed to that girl that he's falling in love with her. Alam ni girl kung ganu kamahal ni guy yung late wife nya. Alam nya din na sobrang sakit kay guy na nawala yung wife nya. Hindi naman agad umamin si guy, although there were hints and may linyahan sya nung una na nasasaktan sya na mainlove sa iba kasi feeling nya nagchi-cheat sya sa wife nya. But the guy is very sincere and kita sa actions nya na love nya si girl. He always finds time and laging nag eeffort para makasama si girl. Inaral pa nya yung PCOS para tulungan si girl sa weight loss journey nito. Consistent din silang magkausap sa chat. And recently nga di na napigilan ni guy at umamin na kay girl. Pero possible ba yun? Na agad agad maiinlove na sya kay girl while still healing or in grief? 🤔 maraming pagkakaiba si girl and late wife so hindi din dahil naaalala ni guy kay new girl si late wife kaya nainlove sya kagad. Hindi alam ni girl kung maniniwala ba sya at tatanggapin yung love ni guy kasi takot din si girl (yung last relationship kasi ni girl was a long term relationship na hindi nagworkout). Pero happy si girl pag magkasama sila at magkausap sila ni guy. Can you help this girl to see things more clearly? 🫠