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Nakita ko accidentally Yung phone Ng bf ko na may porn HAHAHAHA and I don't know pero I feel disgusted and sabi niya normal lang daw Yun Kasi lalake, red flag daw HAHAHAH what do you think guys?

yellowpudding · Answer

If uncomfortable ka sa ganyang situation niyo, sabihin mo sa kaniya. I'm sure that if he really loves you, he'll respect yung feelings mo and titigilan niya yung panonood. I hope you're okay!

Camille · Answer

Maybe talk it out calmly instead of labeling agad na red flag

PrincesMabangis · Answer

Hindi siya “normal lang kasi lalaki” sila lang nag nonormalize nyan kesyo lalaki haha

Jess · Answer

ganyan na ganyan ex ko

Lena · Answer

Ang issue dito is how it affects your trust and relationship dynamics

KLEAAA · Answer

Common sa ibang guys pero dapat open pa rin kayo mag-usap about comfort levels

GentleSting · Answer

Watching porn is a personal choice pero hindi ibig sabihin eh normal na iyon. Red flag kung ginagawang excuse yung pagiging lalake para doon.
Don't let him gaslight you na overreacting ka lang. If it bothers you, it bothers you. Communication is key, pero kung ayaw niyang intindihin, doon ka na mag-isip.

Abing · Answer

Your reaction reflects a deeper need for clarity, comfort, and emotional security in your relationship. The issue isn’t just what you saw, but how it made you feel and how differently you and your partner view it. This is less about judging him, and more about understanding your own boundaries and whether they align.

Mina · Answer

Ayaw ko ng gnun may posinbility maattract sya sa iba

jynaganda · Answer

It's not normal, but rather common. When i found out my boyfriend has corn din, i explicitly said hindi ako comfortable knowing he still watches kahit kami na. He deleted everything right there and then. Hindi mo ako madadaan sa "normal yan, lalaki ako" card. Don't get things twisted at imanipulate ako into thinking na OA ako. No.

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