Forgiving love

I read this somewhere: " : Dating someone you truly love will bring out the worst in you. : What do you mean? : I was never in a serious relationships before I dated Ben, I always left once we started fighting. When I started dating Ben, it was perfect. We used to never argue about anything and I thought that was healthy, but when we got into our first fight, I realized that my relationships without conflict were just surface level relationships. Society tells us this idea that were always supposed to be happy in relationships but the problem is we are all just like spiky hedgehogs. We all want connection but the closer we get to each other, the more we prick each other. : It's not that we want to hurt each other. It's that our spikes are just our insecurities, our flaws, and our fears and when you hurt the people you love, that's really a reflection of how much you still need to heal yourself. : And forgiveness is what lets you keep loving while you're still healing, and not just forgiving them for their spikes, but forgiving yourself for having your own because no one can really control their insecurities. It's about carrying them together. It's realizing love isn't about finding someone who never hurts you. It's about finding someone who's worth forgiving, again and again. " And reality hit me. Do you agree to this?