QMoney in Marriage
How do I get my to husband listen to me? I asked him to hand me his salary so I could budget it. He did. I budgeted. Listed things we should pay and buy. Gave him his share (panggasolina and ulam nya for a week, pay half his loan, and a little extra) Kaso kita ko, binibilang nya yung pambayad utang nya na buo (not as I budgeted na half lang muna). I was thinking, siguradong mangungutang na naman kami pag ganun ang ginawa nya. Nung nag speak out ako, ang katwiran ay matagal na yung utang (1 month max) at bahala na raw pano susurvive na naman until his sahod. Ang nakakainis, when I bring up ideas, he listens but after me speaking, he rejects me outright/ reverts to what he believes in. He sticks to the things he's already told me before. I feel like there is no growth.