Drained or Out of Love?

Hi everyone. New here. What are your thoughts about your husbands after having kids? Married for 9 yrs before nagkababy. I still see him as the old 18yr old boy I loved. No maturity when it comes to serious relationship problems.🥺 He shuts down, no talk (less talk,less mistake daw), hahayaan ka magdamag na di okay. Nakakaiyak i feel so alone. I pray for our marriage but I think I'll soon give up 'cause it hurts and cuts deep. HELP. ano gagawin nyo with this situation?