Long Term Relationships

Girls who left a long term relationship, how did you find the courage to leave? I know deep down in my heart that this isn't going to work out and he is never going to change, and I will have to keep abandoning myself to keep the relationship going. But still, I can't find the courage to leave. I'm scared that I will regret it in the future. He didn't cheat, he doesn't hurt me physically, but why am I so unhappy? I feel like I'm taking care of a child. I feel like I carry most of the mental load. I'm tired. I'm so tired that I get angry over the smallest things he does wrong. The built up resentment makes me angrier for the things I thought I have already forgiven him for. Btw, we are 4 years in a relationship and living together for almost 3 years now.

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