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Why do some people used to sacrifice for others but fail to even love themselves?

SmoothCriminal · Answer

Too late for this. But, that's me.

They (my sisters) say people pleaser ako. But no. I just know how it feels to be helpless, lonely, invisible, neglected, yung kaibigan na inaayawan, yung laging out of place, yung di maka fit in... basically EXPERIENCED everything :(

Sadly, I think the main reason is because of my.looks. I'm the ugliest girl you'll ever see haha. Like super weird ng face ko tapos dumagdag pa weight ko simula nung nabuntis ako.

Siguro, ayoko kasi maexperience ng ibang tao nga na eexperience ko. At the same time, parang ayoko mawala mga tao or friends sa paligid ko :( kasi  nga I always felt invisible. Tapos pag may nagiging kaibigan ako, I'm willing to sacrifice everything... just so I won't be alone again.

Unfortunately, kahit anong gawin ko... it will always end up the same. Lonelycpa rin until now haha 0 friends... and since introvert ako, di ko masamahan anak ko maglaro sa labas. Haha

Mina · Answer

🙏

Theaaa · Answer

I felt that🥹

Sienna · Answer

Remember: you can’t pour from an empty cup🫂

Aevia · Answer

People who sacrifice often tie their worth to helping others. It’s important to reset.

Adelyn · Answer

Sometimes we give so much to others that we forget our own worth💛

Rabert · Answer

I am like that, guess it's innate in me, 
I make SAcrifices every now and then, for the Love of the people I hold dear to my heart.. and  yes, even SA workplace, di dahil di ko mahal Ang sarili kO..but bcoz, Ang kaligayahan ko ay ung nakikita at Alam Kong Masaya Ang mga taong mahalaga at pinahahalagahan ko sa buhay.. gaya NG sobrang sakripisyo at tiis NG hirap ko ngayon, para sa aking pinakamamahal na mga PANGGA 😺.

CozyCream · Answer

I observe din this most of the time. Maybe, balanse yung mundo. Balanse in a way na yung ibang tao yung magpaparamdam sa kanila nito, dahil hindi nila yun kaya gawin for themselves.

Hihi sana di magulo pagkaka-explain ko..

ReiofSunshine · Answer

people pleasing

Izhagni · Answer

i also dont know

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