Q

Ako o trabaho?

Lately yung bf ko parang padami nang padami yung workload na di na sya halos nakakapagreply sakin for a few hours then pag nagreply pa, saglit lang then balik work ulit. Kaya naman always sya nago-OT until mga 9pm or such. Hinahayaan ko lang kasi alam ko na sadyang demanding yung position niya sa work since we work in the same building lang naman just different departments/offices. Plus he's a one man team so wala naman talaga akong magagawa to lessen that. So usually weekends nalang yung time namin together dun sa kanila. Pero this time, he bailed on me na. Kesyo next time nalang daw. Although alam niya malabo din next week kasi pauwi ako ng province naman. Balak niya pumasok din bukas Saturday at magOT pa para lang tapusin yung mga pending niya kasi due na on monday. Ni hindi pa nga sya nakakabawi sakin nung monthsary namin na di kami nagkita or kumain man lang together kasi busy sya sa work. Is this insecurity na on my part na nahurt ako kahit naiintindihan ko naman yung part din niya kung bat need niya talaga tapusin lahat yun? What should I do? p.s. this is my first relationship, so I'm genuinely asking.

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