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Sa tingin niyo, anu-ano ang mga dahilan kung bakit nag s-stay parin ang mga babae sa relasyon kahit na niloloko na sila ng lalaki?

Sienna · Answer

Hope that he’ll change

Theaaa · Answer

Kids? Kadalasan kasi may anak at gusto nilang buo yung pamilya

Adelyn · Answer

Fear of losing comfort zone

Aevia · Answer

Sa ibang cases, iniisip nila na maaayos pa rin nila.

ReiOfSunshine19 · Answer

Ako based on my experience ( sa tatay to ng anak ko na Ex ko na ngayon, thank God!) : it's yung hope that he would change and yung pagka delulu ko na kaya ko siya i-fix. I only realized that he won't change nung nag cheat siya while I was pregnant and that was the last straw for me. You can never fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed/helped.

TheGoodMom · Answer

I heard on a podcast that one reason it’s so hard to let go of a toxic relationship is because it feels familiar—it’s their “comfortable” state. That emotional pattern often comes from childhood trauma, or to put it more gently, childhood experiences. It becomes the feeling they know best, so stepping away from it is difficult.

On the other hand, a secure and contented state feels unfamiliar. Because it’s new, they can be hesitant to fully lean into it.

Another possible reason is being stuck with a narcissistic partner. I’ve been with a narcissistic ex before, and it was really hard to let go because of the love bombing and manipulation

QuirkyBunny · Answer

First, umaasa pa rin na magbabago. 
Second, believing that the first should be last kahit toxic na.
Third, natatakot na wala nang ibang magmamahal or if they could still find love aside from that guy.
Fourth, may anak. Hoping to keep the family "whole".

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