Relationship, friendship and work...
Somebody told me "ang level ng frienship nyo ay dito lang office." And I said yes because she is my co-worker, colleague and that's all. Hanggang doon lang dahil there's something in her attitude that I don't like. But I respect it kasi iyon siya and I can't change that but it doesn't mean I need to like her. Though sometimes I forgot to control myself at hindi ako pumapayag or sumasangayon sa idea nya specially if I know that I am right. That's the way we were since we're just a small company and it was just the two of us most of the time in the office. Until one day she told me "hindi ka talaga makakasundo ng mga coordinators kasi ayaw mo magpatalo, lagi ka sumasagot sa kanila. Nasanay kami kay ******(ung pinalitan ko dahil nag retired na) na mabait at hindi sumasagot. Hinahayaan lang nya kami." So I said, hindi ako si...... at hindi ako mabait. Konti lang ang pasencia ko. At i will not just keep silent if i know na tama ako. Paninindigan ko what i believe is right. Dahil pag alam ko na mali ako, ako mismo ang nagsasabi na it's my fault and I take full responsibility. She didn't answer back and remain silent.