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My bf and I wanted to live together now. We've been dating for 2½ years... Can u guys give us some tips on what we should discuss about? Stuffs to plan and all...

LetMeC · Answer

Finances. Hatian, sino sasagot ng ano, budgeting, etc. But seems like you've already had discussions about that.

Labor sa house. Sometimes, "I cook, you clean" doesn't work kasi what if may sakit si cook or super busy sa work, magstep up ba si clean and siya muna both cook and clean or swap ba muna and siya muna magcook while the other cleans when hindi na siya busy? You need to talk about it kaysa mag-assume kasi baka maging issue pa.

What to do when you have a fight. Time out ba muna then usap or deal with it agad? Kasi you live in one space na lang. Mahirap iwasan ang isa't isa.

Kanya-kanyang Me time. Saan ang personal space mo, saan and personal space niya, comfortable ba sa inyo both na magkasama pero walang ginagawa together, etc.

Visitors. If you're both within the same circle of friends, work in the same dept sa same company (or if not, comfortable with the other's circle), both happy accepting visitors and/or prefer not to have visitors at all. Kasi again, nasa iisang space na lang kayo.

zexycarl · Answer

1st thing first, can you guys afford to live together? House, utility bills, food, etc.

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